Setelah sekian lama pelakon dan pengacara Nabil Mahir mengesahkan hubungan cinta dengan pelakon Sarah Hilderbrand putus, Sarah memuat naik status di Instagram mengaitkan hubungan cintanya sebelum ini.
Selepas berdiam diri, akhirnya Sarah tampil dengan pengakuan dan pendedahan sebenar punca putus cinta dengan bekas kekasihnya.
Menerusi posting di Instagram milik Sarah, sepanjang lima tahun hubungan percintaannya itu, dia memendam rasa apabila sering dibuli dan dihina serta dituduh curang.
“Banyak kali teman rapat saya meminta saya meninggalkan dia, namun saya selalu memberikan alasan,
Sepanjang perhubungan, saya sering dihina dan dibuli. Tidak wujud komunikasi apabila berbicara tentang masa depan bersama.
“Saya sering dituduh curang kerana katanya ‘saya ada potensi, tetapi pada suatu hari Allah maha adil, bekas kekasih saya mengaku dia berlaku curang dengan seorang gadis lain.” – dedah Sarah menerusi akaun Instagramnya.
Disebabkan itu, Sarah mengambil keputusan untuk fokus pada karier dan mencari peluang untuk mengembangkan bakatnya.
“Namun, saya dituduh pula mahukan populariti dan dituduh menghisap kemaluan pengurus saya. Maaf saya bukannya perempuan jalang!
“Saya akan pastikan setiap wang yang diterima datang daripada sumber yang halal kerana saya menjaga ibu saya dan takkan biarkan rezeki itu datang daripada duit haram.
“Itu sudah melampau dan saya sudah penat. Kali terakhir kami bertengkar sehinggalah dia suruh saya berambus, dan itulah yang saya lakukan!” – jelas Sarah lagi.
Menurut Sarah, pendedahannya itu sebenarnya berniat untuk memberikan pengajaran kepada orang ramai agar belajar daripada kesilapannya.
Walaupun Sarah tidak menyebutkan sebarang nama di dalam posting terbabit, namun ramai pihak terutamanya netizen mengatakan individu yang dimaksudkan adalah bekas kekasihnya, Nabil Mahir.
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Confession: The real reason I broke up with my ex. I put up with alot of unnecessary crap. When my friends asked me to leave, I kept making excuses for my ex because I wanted to be optimistic and hopeful. Throughout that relationship, I've been insulted, pushed around and bullied to be exact. There was no communication whatsoever when it came down to a future. Of course there was the intention, but he would always deflect the topic. It was tiring. I was accused of being a cheater because "I had the potential", but one fine day, because Allah is fair, my ex confessed of cheating on me with another girl. Yet, I still tried to make it work, because I was an idiot. I thought I could just get over it and everything would be okay. Nope, couldn't get over it. It haunted my thoughts. You could imagine after being hurt over and over again for almost 5 years, one would get tired of the relationship. That's what happened. I had slowly started to slip away. Stopped hanging out, stopped being in the picture, started focusing on my self and my job. Alhamdulillah after so much hard work, my name became known because of Nadine, a character I had played in a TV Drama. Then, I was accused of wanting popularity. I was accused of sucking my managers dick. Sorry, I'm not a whore. I make sure the money I earn is Halal. I make sure my work is pure and Halal. I'm not only feeding myself but I'm taking care of a single mother, my mother. I would not ever want to make dirty income. That's when I drew the line. I had enough. The last ever fight we had he told me to "F" off. That's what I did. Best decision ever. I wish I called it off much sooner but everything happens for a reason. We grow through what we go through. I'm telling you this with good intentions, hoping that maybe you would learn from my mistakes, or maybe you're hurting and going through what I had been through. I want you to know that you're not alone. It's okay to leave if you're not happy. If someone is not making you happy or making you feel less than, just leave. You don't have to make excuses for people. You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else. May Allah forgive and protect us. 🖤